GayDar – Is He Gay or What?
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It can often be very difficult to determine if a guy is gay, or if he’s even interested for that matter.
Here are just two of the techniques that work for me. The first one is to pay attention to who he’s looking at. If he is checking out the hot/cute/hunky/older/younger (you name it) guy across the room he may be gay.
Now if he is checking out the women with the big, hanging out of her shirt breastesses then he probably is not gay.
But then again even if he is not gay he may not be adverse to an invitation back to your place to see what comes up when you ask him is he wants to see your pet python, so to speak. (was that a run-on sentence or what?)
Secondly, if a guy holds eye contact for more then 5 seconds he may be gay. Most non-gay (read straight) men will not hold your gaze that long. If he does look you in the eyes for a long time he still may not be gay, but simple nearsighted. He may think he staring at a cute women with short blond hair, when it’s actually me, a cute guy with short blond hair. (devilish grin)
Now if he’s checking out my ‘more the amble package’ (ya, right), my bootee, or my smile he then may be gay or simple interested in seeing what else I have to offer.
Sometimes when I’m out and about I’ll wear a lil HRC equals sticker on my shirt. Or a Tee with a gay related symbol on it. Those who know the symbol know it as that of the (Human Rights Campaign ) a national gay lobby group and assume that I may be gay too. It does open up the door for some interesting conversations.
Those are my rambling thoughts and musings. Care to add a comment or two about your use of your GayDar? Please feel free to do so below.
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